tag:sunshineray32.blog.co.uk,2009-11-11:/MokoFeed2009-11-11T05:13:43+01:00tag:sunshineray32.blog.co.uk,2007-11-29:/2007/11/13/rights_for_fathers~3291504/#c5346774angely75spider2007-11-29T21:45:48+01:002007-11-29T21:45:48+01:00the child does see his dad , i have never stopped him going , its the fact that he wants shared residancy that is pissing me off as i know that the only reason is because the CSA have finally tracked him down after 8 years that he know wants him to live with him is so he dont have to pay me anything. And the system is crap even the social worker agreed that it is not a good idea, but its up to the child and whilst he is being bribed he is gonna go . But once the order is set in stone thats it till he s 16, and trust me in 3 years time he s not gonna want much to do with any of us while he s in his teenage years.then when he dont want to go i have to force him . WELL IT STINKS....tag:sunshineray32.blog.co.uk,2007-11-13:/2007/11/13/rights_for_fathers~3291504/#c5201879technomist2007-11-13T20:02:21+01:002007-11-13T20:02:21+01:00 It is never too late for anyone and as you say, nothing is black and white. Sounds as if he is not the man you left if he has beaten the drink. Isn't it best to think about the present situation and also consider what the future may be like - there is a child who will one day have to make up his own mind about things.